Mistakes are STUPID

Cookie: Dandy, one of my friends is really stupid.Dandy: Why?Cookie: I just tried to break an airplane, but she broke it for REAL! Who does that? A stupid person, right? Dandy paused, unsure how to navigate this. Was Cookie trying to shift the blame? Maybe. But more than that, it was a moment for Dandy to consider how to respond without…

How to UNGET Stuck

  Cookie: Dandy, I need 2 things to UNGET hungry every day.Dandy: What are they?Cookie: Ice cream, chocolate, and cupcakes.Dandy: Wait, you said 2 things, and now you’re adding more?Cookie: Yeah, you have to change it up a little every day, right? Cookie’s logic got Dandy thinking… We can’t expect different results by doing the…

From ‘Aaah!’ to ‘Ahaa!’

Dandy: “Cookie, give me a word that starts with A.”Cookie: “Apple.”Dandy: “Give me another word with A.”Cookie: “Aaaaaah!”Dandy: “What happened?”Cookie: “It’s a word that starts with A when someone falls down!”Dandy: “Oh! But we can also have Ahaa!” Let’s play a game! I’ll say something with an “Aaah!” and you have to turn it into…

Why you should sugarcoat the Negatives…

Cookie: wide-eyed, stares at the ceiling.Dandy: “What are you thinking?”Cookie: “I’m thinking of the crocodile… He goes aaav aaav aaav to bite, right?”Dandy: “Yeah, but don’t worry, he won’t bite you.”Cookie: “Can you keep me safe? Can you bite him?”Dandy: (squeezing him) “Of course! I can eat him for you.”Cookie: “But you’ll get a tummy…

Web of Life

My poor plants had braved whiteflies all winter indoors, and I thought the sun would finally bring them relief. Out in nature, where they truly belong, they’d finally thrive.But then the spiders came. And with them, a full-blown spidermite invasion.I hosed the plants down, wondering how I was going to save them from utter destruction….

Lolliop vs Ponytail

Cookie: “Dandy, is the doctor a girl or a boy?”Dandy: “Boy.”Cookie: “Why is he wearing a ponytail?”Dandy: “Boys can have ponytails too. Would you like one?”Cookie: “Yes.” Silence… Cookie thinking… Cookie: “Does that mean I’ll never see a barber again?”Dandy: “That’s right.”Cookie: “No lollipops or haircuts?”Dandy: “None of those.”Cookie: “I don’t want a ponytail.” And…

Cobweb Cameras

This past week, as temperatures dropped sharply, I hurried back home after walking my child to the school bus. That’s when I noticed something unusual in the grass—tiny spots glinting like mirrors or glass. My first thought was, Did some garbage spill over? But as I took a closer look, my concern turned to delight….